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Barcelona After Dark: The WEEKENDR Map
Not the bars you'll find on Google.
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Membership
We review every application. We're looking for men who travel well, engage thoughtfully, and bring something to the table. If that's you, we'd like to meet you.
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The Ritual
Every WEEKENDR arrives the same way. Applied. Approved. Introduced. Here's how the weekend actually works.
Now Matching In
Singles meeting locals. Couples finding their people. Traveling pairs linking up with others. We match WEEKENDRs with whoever makes the weekend better.
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The Experience
Your flight is booked. Your hotel is booked. The only thing missing is someone who actually knows where to go.
Profile
Not a dating profile. A proper introduction — how you travel, the cities you frequent, what you're actually after on a weekend away. No bathroom mirror shots.
Match
Book a trip. We surface members in your destination. Exchange voice notes, then FaceTime if it clicks. No endless "sups." Real conversation before you even pack a bag.
Weekend
A confirmed match. A conversation already started. A city someone actually knows — the bars with no signs, the beach nobody talks about, the Sunday you'll remember.
The App
Four features. One purpose. What actually makes a real connection on a weekend away?
01
The Match
Book a trip. We surface members who are in the same city over the same dates — locals who live there, visitors passing through, or traveling pairs. Browse profiles, send a voice note. The weekend starts on the plane.
Available on iOS
02
The Voice Note
No text messages before you meet. A voice note first — forty seconds that tells you more than any profile picture ever could. Followed by a call if it feels right. It usually does.
Voice-first matching
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Voice First
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The Weekend
A confirmed match. A conversation already had. Build the weekend together — the bars with no signs on the door, the neighbourhood nobody visits on holiday, the Sunday you'll still think about on Monday.
Local knowledge
Golden Hour
FRI 20:00
· La Pepita
SAT 14:00
· El Born
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The Club
Every application reviewed by a human being. No public profiles. No unsolicited contact. A community where everyone arrived the same way you did — by actually applying.
Application-only
WEEKENDR Members Only
Founding Member
Haven T.
The Difference
Built for men who travel
with intention.
The apps were built for the city you live in. WEEKENDR was built for the city you're flying into — and the kind of connection that only happens when someone actually gives a damn about where you're going.
We don't curate the journeys. We curate the members. The rest is chemistry.
Considered Membership
Quality over volume, always.
Built for Travel, Not Just Tonight
WEEKENDR was built for the city you're flying into — connection with a weekend to fill.
Voice and Video — No 'Sups'
Real chemistry before you land.
Private by Design
Discretion as a standard, not a setting.
You Own the Weekend
What happens next is entirely yours.
Curated, not exclusive.
Welcoming, not wide-open.
Editorial
The membership letter. For the travel, the taste, and the conversations that happen after midnight.
City Guide
Not the bars you'll find on Google.
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I didn't stop because it wasn't working.
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There are no rules. There are expectations.
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We could have built another app.
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A voice note is forty-three seconds long.
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Meet the WEEKENDRs
Weekends are meant to be lived. Three perspectives. One platform. Zero wasted weekends.
Founder
Founder
"WEEKENDR was built for a man who already knows how to travel. Who books the right suite, finds the local bar that isn't in the guide, and moves through the world with a certain ease. What we offer is not a tour. It's an introduction."
For 16 years, my husband and I have lived by a simple mantra: play together, stay together. We love exploring new cities side by side, saying yes to adventure, and inviting the right guy into our orbit for a weekend. But every trip, the same thing kept happening — precious vacation time disappeared into scrolling instead of living. As an Airbnb alum obsessed with how travel can make people feel like they belong anywhere, I couldn't stop thinking there had to be a better way. WEEKENDR was born out of wanting that time back.
Head of Membership
"A way to host, be hosted, and build a network of men who trade weekends, cities, and stories."
I've always been the happy solo WEEKENDR. I've lived in Italy, collected friendships across continents, and built a life that orbits around beautiful places, good food, and great company. Home now is the Hudson Valley, in a loft above a vintage speakeasy. Nothing lights me up more than welcoming men into my world here. I'm also a traveling WEEKENDR at heart — I love landing in a new city with the right connections already in place, knowing there's a man waiting who wants to show me his version of home.
Head of Membership
CTO
CTO
"We've been each other's plus-one for over a decade. What I want now is a table for four friends — somewhere in Italy, with men who travel like we do."
My partner and I have been together for over ten years — closed, grounded, Vancouver-based, and quietly obsessed with Italy. We've learned how to travel the way we want to live: slowly, well, with enough margin in the itinerary to follow a good recommendation down a side street. What we've never quite cracked is the other half of the equation — finding our people in destination. Not a scene, not an app, not a tour. Just a table somewhere in Rome with another couple who moves through the world the same way. That gap is exactly why WEEKENDR made sense to me. I've spent my career building products that feel inevitable in hindsight. This is one of them.
Why We Built This
We fly a lot. We've had great weekends and forgettable ones. The difference was almost always whether we knew someone there — someone who actually gave a damn about showing us around.
WEEKENDR is the app we wished existed. Application-only. Voice notes first. Built for the weekend you're flying into.
Early stage, building fast. If you're obsessed with travel, community, and making great products — we want to hear from you.
"The right introduction.
The right city.
The right weekend."
Membership Application
We read every application personally. This takes about five minutes. Be honest — that's the whole point.
01 — About You
02 — How You Travel
03 — What You're Looking For
04 — In Your Words
Press & Media
For press inquiries, media requests, and partnership opportunities. We're always happy to talk to journalists, creators, and collaborators who get what we're building.
About
WEEKENDR is a members-only travel app for gay men. It matches WEEKENDRs — locals, visitors, traveling pairs — who are in the same city over the same dates. Voice notes first. FaceTime if it clicks. The weekend starts before you land.
The Model
Application-only membership. Free to join. Premium tier (Priority) launching summer 2026. Matching is date-based and destination-based — not proximity-based. No public profiles. No unsolicited contact.
Stage
Currently in founding cohort phase. iOS app in development. Matching active in NYC, Miami, and Puerto Vallarta with Barcelona, Lisbon, Amsterdam, London, and Paris coming in 2026.
Founders
Haven Thorn (Founder, Airbnb alum), Michael Arnold (Head of Membership), Hugh Behroozy (CTO). Based between Miami, Hudson Valley, and Vancouver.
Assets
Logos, founder photos, and brand guidelines available on request. Email us with your publication and intended use.
Legal
Membership
WEEKENDR is a members-only platform. Access is granted at our sole discretion. We reserve the right to decline any application or revoke membership at any time without explanation.
Privacy
We collect only the data necessary to operate the service. We do not sell or share member information with third parties. Your profile is private by default — never publicly searchable, never shown to non-members.
Community Standards
Members are expected to treat one another with respect and discretion at all times. Unsolicited contact, harassment, or misrepresentation will result in immediate removal. We curate the members. The culture follows.
Contact
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